Co-workers Mystery "thing"

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Originally Posted by High tide

Good question. Just a little irritated. I guess I put too much time into this one to be completely dismissed. I just want to help, maybe helping people on this forum is not for me.

By no way did she dismiss you, you never gave her a chance to thank-you before you slammed her. You answered her question in the middle of the night at 1am when she was probably sleeping. Then in the morning she was probably getting ready for work and didn't have time to check canreef until11:49am just before noon, which I assume was when she on her lunch break, and probably the first time she was able to check the thread to see if anyone else responded, since the last post she made.

In the future please give someone a couple of days to respond back to you before getting upset. I know that while I am often on here fairly often, there is the odd time when I have gone 1-2 days without having a chance to check in depending on how busy I am. If it can happen to me it can happen to others, so just because someone doesn't respond back to you instantly doesn't mean that they are dismissing you, it just might mean they haven't had time to see your post yet. FYI one member took 3 days to get back to me about something he was selling, I thought he sold it to someone else, but it turned out he just hadn't had time to check in the past 3 days.