Got some questions... 1st SW tank

[ron101]

Should i go white bulbs for both 10,000 or one 10,000 and a 50/50?

IMO color temperature is largely esthetic. Personally I don't notice that big of difference between 10,000K and 50/50s. Any combination of either will be fairly white in appearance. Using either one with an actinic will give a more blue result that many prefer.

would play sand work for a DSB?

Some types will. If you are fortunate to have Southdown play sand in your area, that would be perfect. Otherwise have a look at sugar or oolitic sand (.5-1.0mm particle size) at your lfs store so you know what you 're looking for.

Is there an inexpensive skimmer out there that will do the trick? How about a seaclone?

Not really. The entry-level skimmer that I recommend is a CPR BakPak 2R. That said I did run a 33 gal bubble tip anemone setup with 2 powerheads, a skilter, a 3-4" DSB, and 3x75w VHOs for several months without problem. However this was a well established tank with a light bio load. So it can be done - you just don't have that 'insurance' that a decent skimmer provides.

Like Troy said, hold off on the anemone at first. Get your tank setup and established. Clowns do not have to have a host. Once you get your feet (and floor ) wet with reefkeeping and your budget allows, get a decent skimmer, add a 3rd 55w PC (or go to dual 96w) then look at adding one of the hardier anemones.

HTH