ethics when buying & selling

[psuedo]

If you want to buy it, then get there as soon as possible. If you can't then maybe you could arrange some sort of money transfer as a deposit ( everybody has computers and the internet )

This has happened to me a few times before when i said I would buy something then a few days later when i contacted to tell them i was coming over it was gone.

Just like it has been said in this thread and also the other huge one that has been going around for the last 4 weeks or so, money speaks volumes