what keeps you going?

[SmallFry]

Originally Posted by Coralgurl

Standing on the ledge debating shutting down. Sat in front of my tank for an hour writing a sale thread and cried the entire time. There's nothing wrong with my tank other than lack of maintenance. Cyano bloom went away when I stopped feeding pellets, corals are growing (my rbta is at least a foot wide at its base, then another 6-8 in with it's tentacles flowing).

So overwhelmed with so many things and pulled in every direction. This should be a source of stress relief, instead its just one more thing to find time to deal with. I'm whining, I know, and I know there's been good responses in this thread already. I know an option is sell off live stock and restart down the road. I just need to vent.

In the glacial-paced build of my tank I've had a fair few misadventures, and they can be soul destroying. There are times like many others I've really wanted to throw in the towel - at one point I couldn't get GSP to grow..
After I had an attack of random in-tank deaths (particularly new additions), I stopped adding things and I'm now back to the old guard of livestock that seem pretty much invincible. I'm finding that if I don't push the envelope the maintenance isn't too bad - water changes and adding some baking soda is about it apart from feeding the fish and rounding up the frags the urchin 'relocates'.
Most of the stuff in my tank is pretty mundane, but I'm finding that watching mundane grow is very satisfying..I have simplified not by automating things, but by reducing the number of things I have to do..
I guess what I'm saying is I've learned there are some awesome tanks you see on here and they can be truly inspiring, but I have to temper that with an acceptance that I don't have the time, and something simpler that I don't spend all the time worrying about is actually relaxing, instead of being a millstone around my neck.

Try to relax a bit (easy to say I know) - the less you worry about the maintenance the less of a chore it seems...

And if you start to feel bad, just take a look at my build thread and see how damned long it's taken me to get to the pitiful stage I'm at!

[Coralgurl]

Originally Posted by SmallFry

In the glacial-paced build of my tank I've had a fair few misadventures, and they can be soul destroying. There are times like many others I've really wanted to throw in the towel - at one point I couldn't get GSP to grow..
After I had an attack of random in-tank deaths (particularly new additions), I stopped adding things and I'm now back to the old guard of livestock that seem pretty much invincible. I'm finding that if I don't push the envelope the maintenance isn't too bad - water changes and adding some baking soda is about it apart from feeding the fish and rounding up the frags the urchin 'relocates'.
Most of the stuff in my tank is pretty mundane, but I'm finding that watching mundane grow is very satisfying..I have simplified not by automating things, but by reducing the number of things I have to do..
I guess what I'm saying is I've learned there are some awesome tanks you see on here and they can be truly inspiring, but I have to temper that with an acceptance that I don't have the time, and something simpler that I don't sMpend all the time worrying about is actually relaxing, instead of being a millstone around my neck.

Try to relax a bit (easy to say I know) - the less you worry about the maintenance the less of a chore it seems...

And if you start to feel bad, just take a look at my build thread and see how damned long it's taken me to get to the pitiful stage I'm at!

My tank is the same as yours, I don't really add new livestock, at least what I have is doing well enough. There's a couple bits I need to pick up that will make maintenance easy, but procrastinating as I'm not sure it's fair to what I have to continue....

My it's just spring fever, lack of a winter holiday, not for lack of opportunities to go, just no time to squeeze it in.

Maybe drinks with other reefers will help....where did Kien go??

Brad, we would either need to go through security, or you'd need to duck out....

[kien]

Yes, I will organize something. Give me some dates that work for you. We will work around your schedule :-)

[Coralgurl]

You're the best Kien. Anytime between now and may long, except this Saturday...after may long, mid September works.

[kien]

Originally Posted by Coralgurl

You're the best Kien. Anytime between now and may long, except this Saturday...after may long, mid September works.

Looking at my calendar, how does next weekend sound ? Afternoon sat or sun. It's Easter long weekend btw.

[Aquattro]

Originally Posted by Coralgurl

Brad, we would either need to go through security, or you'd need to duck out....

I do have some experience with bypassing security

[kien]

Originally Posted by Aquattro

I do have some experience with bypassing security

Is christy going to be with you? Would love to chat with her again! What time wil you guys be through ?

[Aquattro]

Originally Posted by kien

Is christy going to be with you? Would love to chat with her again! What time wil you guys be through ?

No, solo trip this time. Heading to Cabo for the week.

[kien]

Originally Posted by Aquattro

No, solo trip this time. Heading to Cabo for the week.

Well, I suppose you will have to do then. Depending on what time you're in and if you think you actually have time to duck out.. Let me know

[Aquattro]

Originally Posted by kien

Well, I suppose you will have to do then. Depending on what time you're in and if you think you actually have time to duck out.. Let me know

lol. I'll check my flight times, not sure how long I have.