sad day for this cat :(

[Vitaminz]

Sorry to hear that buddy, we are all here for you....sometimes it is easier to confide in strangers than family... On a personal note, I have been where you are at right now with an ex of mine, it was hard to imagine how life could ever go on without that routine.....But let me tell you, looking back on it now, it did happen for a reason....During that time, I learned alot about myself, and now alot better off for it. I have since found the woman of my dreams, and have 3 wonderful kids...I hope things work out for you, and let me know if there is any way I can help you.

Jeff

[Llamarama]

sorry to hear dude if you need a puppy sitter or some beer buddies we can come for a visit let me know if I can help at all

[reefwars]

could def use a beer buddy lol i need to find something to occupy my time i was going to work on my tanks but honestly when i look at it i just want to smash them and im smarter that that so ill keep my distance and work wasnt a good idea today as it was all sprung on me as i was on my way out the door this morning seriously though if anyone wants to hang out have some drinks im down, one thing i do know is i need to start having friends again and stay social or it will eat me alive and fester inside my brain

theres a lesson to be learned here i just need to figure out what it is and like the tanks only time will tell thanks all

[Llamarama]

well we're in red deer but if you need a friend we could def come up later on...do you still have Zoya? could bring zooey they could wear each other out :P

[reefwars]

for sure you guys are welcome to come anytime, and bring your dog mines a bit sad i dont think she knows whats going on yet shes just looking for the puppy. im thinking i should host a frag party and bbq/drinks at my house kind of get to know some new peeps and have a good time your all invited and ill post something later to see if theres any interest

thanks

[lastlight]

Maybe talk to Ryan (Muck). He's local and I've heard he does a lot of exotic dancing for these sorts of things. Not sure what he charges tho.

[reefwars]

hahaha ive heard that lol hummm must be true if it made its way all the way to edmonton. its a good way to earn a little side tank income that the wife dont know about if you ask me

[muck]

Originally Posted by lastlight

Maybe talk to Ryan (Muck). He's local and I've heard he does a lot of exotic dancing for these sorts of things. Not sure what he charges tho.

Way to out me Brett... I told you I got out of the hobby temporarily to focus on "other things" in confidence bro.

[jorjef]

Was in the same spot some 5 years ago. It will take time but you will come to realize that it only gets better day by day. You said you fighting etc. ,I'm sure you weren't happy either even if you can't accept or see it right now. Take time to reflect about your relationship, but don't lay blame on either side just reflect,accept and move on.... A better life is in store for you, I know it's hard to see right now but it will come.... promise.

Peace out.

[reefwars]

well a big thanks to Llamarama (deidre and tyler) hope i spelled that right lol for coming all the way up from red deer just to spend some time with me and hang out with the dogs and talk tanks weve only met once before but they were willing to go out of their way and spend time with me todaythanks guys it really helped me keep my mind off things today its incredible how friendly people are from this site keep up the good work guys and pretty soon well have a perfect world