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[reefermadness]

Originally Posted by Snaz

http://canreef.com/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=no_bs

Still lost....

[skabooya]

Good for you taking a step up. Its a start but your really going to have to amp it up with actions and more and more words.
When my husband or anyone ****es me off/ hurts me (emotionally) it takes quite a while before I can trust or respect them again. I cant speak for most women but all the women I know including myself tend to hold grudges.

Keep taking those steps and youll find your way back again

[Skimmerking]

Still what the heck is this about

[fishoholic]

From what I understand no_bs and his significant other broke up and he left her to deal with the sale of all the saltwater stuff they had.

Originally Posted by fishoholic

From what I understand no_bs and his significant other broke up and he left her to deal with the sale of all the saltwater stuff they had.

That is part of it from what I know I bought a couple frags from Brenda and she is a very nice person. I think what made it a bit worse is no_bs broke her computer and left everything behind when he left. maybe he thinks that by leaving everything behind she could recoup some money from all the stuff he had bought and never used. They did have some big plans for a very nice fish room and it looks like it would be very nice fish room. I wouldn't mind some of the equipment he left behind but I can not afford any of it. When I was there Brenda was doing fine and moving on with life. This is what she needed not some one hounding her, I do commend no_bs for publicly apologizing to her that is a big move in the right direction. I was there for about an hour and we did talk but not about what happened as it is not my business. If she wanted to say some thing to get it off her shoulders that would have been fine but I would not repeat it. I can say she really liked having the fish in the house but has no idea how to care for them and up keep them. I did tell her that if i lived close I would cut her back to 1 tank and upkeep it till she learned how to do what is needed, but I live in Kamloops. no_bs has said what he wanted and now leave it that like that, those that want to wash others personal lives in public should be ashamed. I do not mean the one's that are confused as to what is going on here. They don't know and don't need to know Brenda and no_bs have not personally told them and that is the way it should stay. Brenda has been getting some help from a friend but his knowledge is limited in this hobby.

Bill

[StirCrazy]

ok so what does this have to do with the board???

typing words on a board means absolutly nothing, if it isn't in person, then why bother, especialy on a public forum for fish, not relationships.

Steve

[skabooya]

It was an apology and this is the Lounge where people can post anything not fish related. Be considerate. Hes trying to do something nice. Some of what happened was part of this board, its nice to know hes trying to fix things.
Give the guy some slack, and if you dont have anything nice to say then just keep it to yourself.

bvlester: I agree with everything you just said.

[Zoaelite]

Originally Posted by StirCrazy

ok so what does this have to do with the board???

typing words on a board means absolutly nothing, if it isn't in person, then why bother, especialy on a public forum for fish, not relationships.

Steve

What an interseting statement

[jorjef]

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