coral compatability

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man, this is such a bummer.
anyone know of a good reference site for which softies are best avoided in a sps setting?

Also, are and of the softies toxic to fish?
I have a big fat leather toadstool and nobody in my 72 will go near it.
It's a beautiful coral but takes up a lot of real estate in a pretty hot area.
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