grrrr, can't quote everyone in one post....
THANKS everyone!!!
Nope, this will be second marriages for both of us. We are a blended family (he has 4 kids, I have 2), but 3 are now in their early 20's and not living at home.
It's important to me for a number of reasons - having more kids is NOT one of them...lol
Thank you for thinking we are young, I am at heart but my drivers license says something different.
I think the blending of bank accounts is a motivator for him, not going to happen. We already have separate accounts and a joint account. It will stay this way.
Open invite....hmmmm, we'll see.... I think you are all great, but I've seen some of you drink and you may just clean out the bar...lol
My dad - we just don't know. I've told him he has to stick around for a while longer, I think he will try but sometimes the body has other plans. I want him there so if it means we head to City Hall for a quick ceremony, then that's what I'll do and have the party after.