Geez Tony ... I'm sorry for all your grief and loss.
Hope Pops recovers quickly.
I'm one of those redundancy freaks. Pretty much everything I have is backed up by something, and I keep separate baskets for all my eggs.
Even so, thanks for posting your hardware failures. Hopefully it will save someone in future.
As Brett said, just take a step back while things calm down and we know you'll set it back up again.
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