[Myka]

That nem is not happy. It is bleached and it won't hang on forever. What kind of lighting do you have? BTAs are tolerant of lower light levels, but too much light will cause them to bleach. How often do you feed it? Are you sure it isn't spitting the silversides out an hour after you feed it? It looks quite small, and they won't usually accept silversides unless they are fairly large. I feed mine mysis shrimp, fish pellets, and homemade frozen food.