hmm, just did a bit of google search and there aeems to be info on both sides about the ficus when it comes to birds.. most seem to say it is ok but for a few species.
We try to be very careful about what plants we keep in the house with a cat and a toddler.
I had read about the teflon, We rarely use a teflon pan for cooking but know now to be sure to use it safely.