Marlin, I gotta say that therealbigal takes more care in fewer tank inhabitants rather than overwhelming himself with many...
That is to say, the sebae when he had it was fed a silverside every 2 days by hand and literally had the run of his tank...
I would bet his library of books on clownfish husbandry exceeds even your own as he buys a new one every week or so and reads them until I can't even stand how much he has to say about clowns...
I know we're all just trying to help each other out, but I wouldn't question his knowledge on something like this just because his darwins wouldn't host on his sebae as planned when he puchased it.
you guys might actually have much to discuss on the subject, given your own mutual interest and commitment to the better care of these animals
BTW, seahorse_fanatic has taken the anemone and so it has gone from one very good home to another.
mods....do as you will.