Dither fish, yes, perhaps that what would help (or another, but less shy, lubbock's). I would have prefered to buy a pair but only one was available at the time, haven't seen any others since then (not that I've been looking particularly hard).
Willow can you tell any discernable clues to identify male vs female with the lubbock's? How large is your male? Your female sounds like mine, I wonder if it's a male/female thing to be shy or bold?
Although by herself/himself for so long now (5 months) I would wonder if it's turned into a male by now?
Guess I just have a 'fraidy cat ...
