I was always asked by the g/f - and how much did that cost???? or i could say i went to the pub after work and she would say " you lie - you stopped by a fish store didn't you " lol - so i did the next best thing - i gave her a 20gal up and running tank with rock and fish (spare stuff around the house) and now its "can we go to J&L's on the weekend??? I just want to see what they have - really. lol I always say - if they question it - i can bring them down to my level. To date its Fish Geek and Computer Geek. At least this hobby is full of great people
Rich